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a woman. a writer. a thinker. always proud to be one.

 

Crying for Korea

I just watched a channel which broadcasted a documentary called "Escaping North Korea*" and am stirred to write this. I don't really know about that socialist country, but after reading several articles on the internet I feel more sad and concerned about North Korean people. Although almost all of them are literate, they do not have freedom for their own lives. As one of five remaining socialist countries in the world, North Korea clearly declare themselves as self-governed country which centralized everything. Food, education, shelter are provided free for the people, but that doesn't mean that the people have enough. Meat and fruits are two rare things for ordinary people. Imagine if you have never known banana, mango, or orange fruits! It's madness!! Imagine that the food "store" in town only provides cabbages, tomatoes, and turnips... Are you feeling lucky now?


You should feel lucky. North Korean people are not allowed to have internet connection or accept any influences from outside world. This concentrated camp which has been allowed to call themselves as a country is a strong proof of human right's violation. While the elite could indulge themselves in finer clothes and transportation, the ordinary people are meant to work like cows and expected to behave in such a way to please the elite (including wearing uniforms every other day of their lives!) So it's not so shocking to know that the live-span of North Koreans are shorter than most people in the world (and similar to Pakistan, Burma, and Russia).

I wonder what would happen after the current dictator, Kim Jong-Il is gone one day. Oh, he is ill-minded, indeed. May the grace of God be upon him and his family, as they have been living in luxury, out of the misery of his people. I couldn't imagine how it likes to be a citizen in that hell on earth which cultivates nuclear weapons, distributes illegal drugs, and builds military zone like some kind of amusement parks. 

I still don't know how, but the world must save North Koreans. As one of chinese people who was born outside that socialist country, I can say that I am proud of my ancestors who once decided to have a better future by migrating abroad. Having said that, I will not trade my freedom with anything. And I pray that God will open doors and give hopes for North Koreans. It is not their faults to be born there, and they should not be kept hidden from the rest of the world. They should be able to laugh and speak like other country's citizens. They are God created human beings. The Hermit kingdom sadly were also God created being, and they were here for a purpose. We do not know why such people were created in the first place; Hitler, Saddam Hussein, Mao, Osama bin Laden. What did their mothers teach. What bitterness root. But as Romans 8:28 says, "all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." So I truly believe that amongst those bitter roots, there will be one or more better roots that grow to fulfill that purpose. When you are oppressed, you will likely find the best strength inside. God is not neglecting the North Koreans, just like He is not forgetting the Jews. One day we'd look back and see the revelation of His plans for their lives. Maybe not in this decade, maybe not in this world. But I believe God loves and values 10 out of 10 each of his creation. We should remember that whenever we treat other people in our lives.

Do you value a 10 out of yourself? 


*The documentary told that North Korean must crossed over China, Myanmar, Thailand, and then fly to South Korean embassy to seek for asylum. If they get caught before they reach Thailand, they will be sent back to North Korea and executed there.  

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By coolz
On Monday, November 23, 2009
At 12:48 AM
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Weekend Review: The Interesting Facts of Human Heads

I know the weekend isn't over yet, but it has been a while since I wrote it on this blog (err, yes, I do have several hidden blogs). I was in the middle of watching "500 days of Summer" when I decided to online and blog. How are you all doing this weekend? I hope you're in good shape, because during the last two weeks I wasn't. Maybe it's the weather, maybe it's the emotion, but whatever it is I felt less than 50% and had to take 2 day-off during the time. Several colleagues of mine are also not in good shape, hmmm... I think air conditioner in office building is as filthy as an old kitchen of chinese food restaurants. I don't care how old the office building is, but when it contains almost a thousand of people every single day, yet only being cleaned not thoroughly... well, it becomes an  ugly source of diseases, don't you think? I do hope the office management would consider to have air purifier one day. This is all based on my experience, that whenever I feel sick and nauseous... I'd stay away from the office and choose to have a bed rest at home, and voila! the next day I am good as I was before.

This weekend, my friend got married far away in South area, near where the orang utans live... hehehe, yes, it was in Ragunan area. Well, what planned to be an afternoon occasion ended up as a private lunch of four in a chinese food restaurant. Lols. But I am not complaining. I did had a good time today; got stuck in traffic jam, meeting the bride & groom in their family private function, having late lunch at Mandala Jl. Wolter Monginsidi (which didn't have their price printed on the menu. Grrr!), and serving in video booth.

See, here is the interesting part... The people who I spent time with today weren't my "primary" friends, if you know what I mean. We all have "primary", "secondary", "tertiary" friends in our head. When we spend time with our primary friends we expect to have good times for sure, because we know that primary friends are always "click" with us and try their best to understand us. "Primary" friends could also mean important people that you think matter/ mean the most to you. When we hang out with our "secondary" friends, we don't expect anything; we become less demanding, less understanding, and less focused. With our "secondary" friends, we become ourselves, but putting aside most of our personal baggage (problems, dilemma, deep thoughts- those are saved for "primary" friends). With this note, sometimes spending time with secondary friends can be light and entertaining, as well as surprising. We might obtain details that we never see before from other perspective. Like my pastor said today, "spending time with more people means spending less private time". Although we may know a person for a long time, but if we always meet them in big group, we might never truly know them. So, that's why I enjoyed today.

I always think of myself as a "secondary friend", a second-class citizen, a black horse. I know there are numbers of people who consider me as "primary friend", but they're just a bunch. I am not popular in the society. My timidness and unwillingness to keep an interest on people make people less interested in me. That "you keep your business and I'll keep mine" principal always works for me. Since I don't care about most people's lives and most people's opinions, they don't care about mine, too. I am one of the people that is hard to be loved (but actually need it anyway). Lols.

Three indications that you are a "secondary friend" for someone:
1. They walk or talk with you, until they find the star of the night
2. They do not know what you like and will not bother to ask
3. They can turn their back at anytime according to public point of view of you. If people like you, they will like you. If people hate you, they will avoid you.

Have a great weekend, all :)

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By coolz
On Sunday, November 22, 2009
At 1:26 AM
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Yesterday I Was Here

That's the preliminary title of book I am currently trying to finish. So far I only reached 2,000 words (and the goal is 50,000 during the month of November!). So, that means I still have 13 days before the month comes to an end, and I need to write 3692 words/ day. Hohoho. I used to be able to write about 40 pages a day, but that was before I have a lot of things in my mind.

Why do we have to think about so much things ya? I wish I can be careless sometimes. At times, ignorance is a bliss, indeed. When you focus nothing but yourself, and trying to give the best to yourself, you will end up reap a whole lot more. Right now, I'm focusing on the existence. Not the existence of me, but the existence of everything around me. I'm holding on to everything I have right now and insist to carry them all to the future.

But I do know I want a different future. The question is, will I ever get it? Some people are lucky enough to have everything they want, but I myself have invented a pessimistic me. Me who always stare at the past, and measure things according to their heights. A half-empty glass. If you see things as possibility, then they will be. If not, then that's it. But then again, I am a solo soul.


I don't know what a solo soul needs. Do you?

By coolz
On Tuesday, November 17, 2009
At 5:38 PM
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 What a week! I'm gonna end this week with a note: BCA sucks! I was trying to withdraw my money from ATM at Grand Indonesia earlier this afternoon. No sign of out of order, when suddenly after I withdraw my money (I checked my account balance before that, cuz I was waiting for a transfer) the error sign appear, yet my money was already eliminated. I know it's not about the amount, but geeesh... that's my hard-earned money, and I shall have it back. I also have a digestion problem today; pheww, ATM problems, not enough sleep, broken Air Con... What else should I expect? :( May God bless this week.

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By coolz
On Monday, November 09, 2009
At 1:01 AM
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Saturday


As I got closer to the weekend, I found myself busy and busier. The working days were okay, as our company invited the head of art division from Singapore. The guy looked younger than he really is, and as he spoke you can see that he was humbling himself. As a leader, he knew how to talk to his men; how to build their confidence, yet not in a fake way. There were some aspects of him that I didn't completely treasure and said yes and amen to, but then again we are unique humans with diverse objectives and beliefs. I didn't talk at all during his visit; well, I wanted to share my ideas, but got too chickened out and decided to keep them for myself. I guess the presence of so and so made me felt uncomfortable ya. I know I should let myself be heard, and I know staying quiet will not make my point excel, but I just don't think I'm ready yet. Next week, we'll have another guy from the same place, but I hope I can extract something even further from him. You know, working in advertising could make you feel reaally stupid at times. If you are working in the same industry, you'll understand what I mean. I wonder if one day I'll get sick of it, and decide to explore something new and oppose to it.

After 3 days sessions of direct "motivational input", I finally got the chance to visit my dear church at its new location. The International English Service is officially moving to Thamrin 9, taking the 8th and 9th floor of ANZ square. In the future, the building is gonna be occupied by interesting tenants, such as pizza place, cafes, and who knows what else. This is almost too good to be true ya... I mean settling in the most strategic area of Central Jakarta (which is only few steps away from the HI round circle) for the next 10 years at least. This is entirely God's grace. When I heard how some IES staff stayed over every day and tried to speed up the construction, I felt humbled. I need to do something more for the Kingdom of God. I need to do something more for my church. I need to use all my energy and mind to help in whatever way possible. So, when I came this afternoon I didn't plan to help out with anything, until I saw that our head pastor's wife was arranging the seats and all. If she decided to do it on her own, then there must be something wrong with it. If she -who were supposed to be coaching the choir team- decided it to take charge, then maybe nobody else wanted to think it through. When I met her on Friday, she looked so tired. I met our music pastor on Friday, too, and he looked extremeeely tired. He said that he had so many things in his head; so many things to be done, yet so little time.

So, I tried to help as much as I could. Simple things are not always as simple as they're supposed to be. And sometimes having more hands are not always better in practice. Let's say you were never trained to do one thing, but then you decided to do it without understanding the possibilities. In the end, the worst thing that could happen is you are making a mess, and make the well-trained people do the same thing all over again, but taking twice as much time as they needed to. This is, my friend, what I call "a time not worth to be waisted". I wasn't sure if I'm helping enough, or I'm making things complicated, but I did try my best to listen to instructions and serve in my field. Of course there will always be some people who say discouraging things, but then again who are they to judge. I just couldn't sit there and waited for things to happen on their own. My intention was purely to help on last minutes, and give the staff who had been keeping eye on the progress (and stayed up 'till 3 am every day of the week) a break. No, they didn't ask for help. But they would love to be helped. Of course during particular event, understanding distinct character of others is very crucial. I may not be pleasing for everybody, but I know that there is no way I could make everybody happy.

I had a terrible headache on Friday, right after I got home from T9. I think it probably caused by the smell and the dust, but I could be wrong. As soon as I arrived home, I crashed on my bed and slept until 6 am. Got up for a while, and started sleeping again until 11. Finally took shower at 11.30, and dried my hair. Took off at about 12.30 with a lasting headache. I was active up 'till 6 pm, until I finally sang on stage with the other choir members. Then I felt the headache again. I went home quickly after that (cuz I can still hear the sermon on Sunday) and once again crashed on my bed before anything else. When I woke up at 22.30, I realized that the headache was still there... So I ate the chicken noodle I brought earlier and drink the heaviest Panadol along with vitamin C. I think it's my low blood pressure. I feel much better now, thank God... but found myself feeling completely alert and awake!! Isn't Panadol Extra suppose to help you sleep and rest at night? What's up with this?? Oh, well... I'm just gonna try "force-to-quit" my eyes now :p



Come and join us at UOB plaza, Jl. Thamrin 9, Jkt. For more info, visit iesjakarta.org

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By coolz
On Sunday, November 08, 2009
At 2:33 AM
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Starting Nanowrimo with Q10

If you have played Scrabble before, you would know that Q10 term was taken from the game. Now, I am starting to get myself used to these mini keyboards of mine, and Q10 software. The beauty of this freeware is how it allows you to concentrate solely to your words and typing only. To make it even more fun like the older days (well, for us writers who had ever experience the joy of using vintage typing machine. I personally would like to store mine forever and ever! My parents used to give me an all-black classic typing machine, and I used it to publish my first writing for local newspaper. What a sweet memory!), Q10 provides the typing sound automatically, either from movies such as Amelie, Chicago, or Super Mario (huh? never mind)... So, while I could focus on my writing without being distracted by chat screens or Mozilla or Opera... I could save the energy, too, because the screen is using all-black as background :) So, thank you, poystories, for plurking about this, and I wish you good luck for your writing, too. If I have time, I'll try to come to the meet-up this weekend.

Happy Nanowrimo!

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By coolz
On Wednesday, November 04, 2009
At 1:35 AM
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Believe

Believe in yourself

Do you ever find an idea that you think might work and simply great? You just blindly believe in it, until someone told you that you need to rework it, and that it's not as great as you thought... What would you think? Are you gonna stop and change your idea? Or are you gonna stand up for it and prove that it is as great as you think. Sometimes, there might not be an opportunity to do so, so I guess until then all you can do is do your best and improve your idea and presentation (great idea could look like crap if it's not well-presented, and vice versa).


Find others who believe in you

Great mind is great, but no one's going to know whether you are great or not until you prove your idea. So, influence people and make them intoxicated by your ideas, so that they would become your true supporters and would end up helping you to spread the idea. More and more people will be interested to learn about your ideas when they see that you have so many supporters. Let's face it, there are larger number of "the followers" type, compared to "the original/unique" type in this world :)

Believe in God's time

When it is time for you to rise up, you will. Although there is no guarantee that great mind would always be found, but you just have to keep on believing in yourself. Keep believing in your ideas no matter how much people reject it. As long as the idea brings goodness and improvement of living, then you should be proud of it. That doesn't mean we shouldn't let go... There will times when we have say goodbye to our ideas; because they have been found by other people, because of lack of source, because of the unpredicted change that happens, or because it makes us miserable. The main goal in life is to have happiness, and not to feed our ego to be what we want to be. Never loose yourself while chasing your dreams/ ideas. With that note, I would like to say have a great November to you all!

By coolz
On Sunday, November 01, 2009
At 3:49 PM
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Trading the Sorrow :)

Sitting on this cafe sofa, under a soft yellow light which glow throughout the small room...
Drinking juice, eating ice cream, listening to excellent bass and drum from the jazz players...
Just relaxing, trying to unwind and get my groove back... mojo, gusto, whatever...
Tomorrow is weekend again, and I still have so many plans in my mind...
Be it unto me according to Your will, God. And I promise, I will trade my sorrow.

Have a great weekend, friends.

By coolz
On Friday, October 23, 2009
At 10:32 PM
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Weekend Review: Surabaya Sunny Getaway

Today is my fifth day in my hometown, Surabaya, and already I felt like I'm moving in back to my parents house :D Once again being asked if I'm gonna stay for good in Jakarta, or gonna come back to Surabaya after several years of experience... But the truth is, the city is similar like Jakarta now, and it is scorching hot (maybe cuz it's October ya). I'm thinking to myself that if I am gonna stay again in Surabaya, I'm gonna stay on my own. So, yup, might as well buy a house and a car. But anyways, since that's a long-term plan, right now I'm just focusing on short-term plan such as embracing opportunities that come my way. Hey, do you find yourself thinking of short and long term goal when it's close to the end of the year? I do, cuz my birthday falls just few days before New Year.  

I'm going to have a morning flight tomorrow, and still haven't figured out how I'm gonna bring all the "oleh-oleh" for friends and colleagues in Jakarta. You know, simple stuff like "kerupuk upil" (sand cracker) can be a pain in *** when it's being carried (very light, yet must be carried very carefully- cuz once they crack, they would not be able to be called "crackers" anymore). Anywyas, I've promised mself that this is the last time I'm bringing "oleh-oleh" and this is the last time I'm coming home only for wedding. It's not really a "eco-friendly" activity you know; taking round trip on an airplane in the name of invitation. Next time, I'll save the money and send the newlyweds a wedding gift instead :) Nice idea, eh? Next year, the only wedding I will be attending is S*n & D*n's (cuz she's my best friend of 12 years, and I've promised her a ladies party). Can't wait to arrange it... ^^

By coolz
On Sunday, October 18, 2009
At 3:30 PM
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How Much Do You Love the Earth?



On this Blog Action Day, I'm not gonna be preachy about Global Warming and its effects, yada yada yada... A lot of us might have heard that over and over; the truth is everyone thinks that it's not directly effected them whatsoever. Well, many representations which often mentioned over Global Warming issue are seem so far away from us. People are just being realistic; as much as we wanna care for certain extinctions but the fact is we feel not too related to Polar Bear in North Pole, Penguin in South Pole, Orang Utan in Kalimantan, Panda in China, or Pink Dolphin in Amazon. People are being righteous; I'm a good person, I don't harm others, I pay taxes, and I want the government to do something about this issue. Well, are we good people? If we observed some of the natural tragedies that happened recently, I don't think we can say Amen to that. There IS something wrong with the planet, and we must act together to prevent the worst to happen.

Here is a checklist to know whether or not you have taken part in loving the earth:
- 3R action: reduce, reuse, recycle (you can sing along with Jack Johnson)
- managing your trash; no littering (including ciggy bud)
- buy refill and big size
- bring groceries bag
- carpooling or use the public transport as much as possible
- buy local products
- good driving and good car maintenance
- buy second hand car
- turning off the unattended light and AC
- take the train instead of plane for a short trip between 2 cities
- washing car using leave-on shampoo or not as much
- stop using Styrofoam and wooden chopstick
- responsible disposal (not burning plastic or throw battery to the dumpster).

If you disagree or not doing most of the list, well, its not too late to change. To read more about this topic, please visit this site.

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By coolz
On Thursday, October 15, 2009
At 11:08 PM
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Care to Adopt Him? :)

This morning I opened my email, and found this posting on one of my mailing lists. Since I am a dog lover, I thought I share the info here, so that anyone who wants the accompany of a cute one-year-old doggy could just contact the person.



Jimmy is male, weight 11 kg, and he needs a family who would love him 'till the day he dies. Jimmy is a friendly dog, who knows how to greet people, roll over, and understand his name.He is currently staying in a pet clinic, and is given vaccine and an intensive health check-up.

If you think you can provide him a decent shelter (without putting him in cage or on chain), please refer to this link, or contact carolinafajar1@yahoo.com, or call 92920350 (after 6pm). Hix, I would love to have him with me, but it's not allowed in my rented place. I'm sorry, Jimmy. I hope you will have a good home soon and stay happy wherever you are.

By coolz
On Tuesday, October 13, 2009
At 2:23 PM
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Jak-Japan Matsuri 2009: Full of Red-White and Red Dot Passion

   




     

I had had so much fun yesterday. This is a Japanese festival that had gotten a heart-warming support from the local society. One of the festivals which you can't afford to loose... Well, here are the reasons:
- this happens once a year (with undetermined location).
- this year it took place inside Monas (the National Museum), so it was really strategic! :)
- there were so many attractive and unique people walking around with confidence (where else you can paint your face, use colorful wig, or carry a samurai on your back?)
- there were many Japanese food, toys, souvenirs, and games
- there was a chance for you to hook up with a beautiful Japanese women in their yukata. Also, typical slim Japanese guys who wore rattan hat.

Still not enough reason? How about a jazz performance and a traditional Omikoshi (神輿) parade just like it was in Japan? Well, I wasn't expecting to meet them all, but apparently they were all there! It was absolutely an all-out closing festival. I kinda felt touched when I observe the relationship that's been built between Indonesia and Japan. Despite the short colonial era, I think Japan has left its root in Indonesia more than we realized. There are so many Indonesians who love Japanese language (including myself), and learn its culture with so much enthusiasm. On the other hand, Japan has been trying to facilitate Indonesia, by providing different scholarship and cultural programs. Honestly, not even the Dutch had done that (some may say "redeem" or whatever, but the truth is this is a different generation, so I don't think it's fair to say that). All of that was done to create a mutual relationship, which become a loving relationship. I saw one Indonesian lady wearing a veil, who was joining other elder women in mochi-making process. After the gents were hitting the mochi rice with big wood hammer, the rice was finally being rolled into flour and mix with different ganishes. The Indonesian lady was talking to the women in Japanese, when suddenly she got a gentle tap on her back. A Japanese man of her age asked in Bahasa, "Sudah selesai?" (Have you finished yet?) and she answered, "Baru mulai" (It's just started). I was smiling seeing their interaction; and I could tell that they were husband and wife. What do you think? :)

I hope more and more festivals like this will be held in Indonesia. Not just Jakarta, but a roadshow would be great. I remember how I've always found it difficult to keep up with cultural events when I was living in Surabaya. Well, I guess the rest is up to the government, but for this one I will give salute *bow in Japanese way* and say "doumo arigatou gozaimashita".

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By coolz
On Monday, October 12, 2009
At 3:42 PM
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Weekend Review: ........ is Hard to Do

I was planning on writing about the Batik day on Oct 2nd yesterday, but then apparently I got distracted by a lot of things that I didn't write it at the end of the day. If many of you don't know, on Oct 2nd UNESCO is officially admitting Batik as one of the world's heritage, therefore to celebrate it the goverment officials and institutions were encouraging people to wear Batik. The result was, Indonesia were dominated by Batik during that day. Even the street sellers were wearing "blankon" (one of the national attire for men). Here is one news from the national newspaper.

batik is originally from Indonesia

Anyways, so many things had happened over the past two weeks. Indonesia got hit by several horrible earthquakes, and Padang is suffering the most. This earthquake was much worse than Yogyakarta earthquake 3 years ago. Indonesia is situated within a zone of intense seismic activity known as the "Pacific Ring of Fire". Thousands of people died, and the news was seen all over the world. Bty, just a note for international broadcaster, this is how you should spell "Padang": Pa-dang (a as in "Papa").

the epicenter of sumatra earthquake

Still in the same continent, Philippines also recently got hit by Typhoon Parma, which resulted a severe flood. The typhoon is said to be moving, and could possibly hit other countries (including Indonesia? I don't know). What I know is, probably due to the natural disasters, several electricity sources in Jakarta went off. My office which located at the main business district was not the exception, that was why the business activities were interrupted for two days.

Not enough of having so many unfortunate events, my boy friend and I ended our romantic relationship. After we passed our first anniversary, we kinda got reminded that it was time to move forward; to get married. It was exactly a week after Sept 26. I feel like things got worse and worse with my life. Well, maybe I need to take time off to see everything in bigger picture, and then start somewhere new. I'm always excited to do new and adventurous things. Applying for a new job, seeking new community, moving abroad are some of the things I'd like to do amongst my next year's plan list. Looking for boy friend is not on the list. If you'd ever experienced heart break you would understand. The nights are the toughest time to be alone (and realizing you are alone!) I feel so glad that my former boy friend is a sweetheart; we still chat and are staying in touch. This time was the first time that I feel this resistance to let go... Usually after decided to end a relationship, I felt relieved and wanted no more personal contact. Usually I did not care anymore. This time, I really really need a lot of distractions to keep myself busy. So help me, God.

This room that once was full of you, now become empty.

empty

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By coolz
On Monday, October 05, 2009
At 6:43 PM
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Switching Focus This Month

BBC blog

I got the chance to become "blogger of this month" on BBC Learning English site. I am really excited about it, since this is one of the easiest way for me to expand my English writing skill (cuz I'll get a professional guide), and share my opinion with many readers from all over the world. Kind of surprising to know that I am the first Indonesian that has ever been registered as a student blogger. I hope my blog can be an inspiration for many readers, and become a great tool to introduce the world to my beloved country, Indonesia. If you are a regular reader of my blog, please understand that all through this September I might not blog here as much as I used to, but please feel free to view my blog on BBC. Here is my first post that I copied from the blog...

Halo, Apa Kabar?

Allow me to introduce myself as the blogger of this month. The above title show how I greet people in my native language (Bahasa Indonesia), which means "Hello, how are you?". We use that to greet people, especially those we haven't met for a long time. When we meet somebody for the first time, it could also mean "Hello, how do you do?", but unlike English, we don't say "apa kabar" back to the greeter. Honestly, when I first learned English, I found that "How do you do" thing was kind of weird at first. Why -instead of answering the question- do we have to repeat the same question again. Well, I guess that's the uniqueness of a language.

All through this September, I will try my best to keep you posted about many interesting things that happen in my world. I am currently living in Jakarta, the capital city of Indonesia, a.k.a. one of the most populated cities in the world. Over two hundred millions of people are currently living in Jakarta, and that cause unbearable traffic jam at certain areas every single day. It is very common for us to leave for work at 6 am in the morning, and reach home again at 9 pm in the evening. Is it a normal thing for you?

I am currently sitting behind my office desk now. In case you are wondering, I work as a copywriter. This is one of those jobs that may sound fancy, but actually only related to words and concepts. Don't you just love writing? *seeking approval* I feel that writing could lead to many many things. One of the result is advertising, an interesting industry that I am involved in. When I was a little girl, I loved to watch commercials on television. Whenever there was a new product being introduced, I would come up to my dad and ask for that same thing. My dad said that many advertisements told lies. Well, he might be true at some point, but don't we like being lied to sometimes? I can speak as a woman that I like being told that I have lost weight (when the fact was I just looked thinner thanks to the black dress that I wore). I think advertising sell hopes and dreams. Without those two things, we will not have motivation. What do you think? On my next post, I will share you some of my favorite commercials of all times. Please do come back and leave me a comment. Thanks!

See the comments and my other blog posts in:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/worldservice/learningenglish/communicate/blog/student/

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By coolz
On Wednesday, September 09, 2009
At 9:09 AM
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Hello Again, Plaza Senayan... :)

Hmmmm... it's been a while since I've visited Plaza Senayan... (maybe since 6 months ago?). The last time I went there to dine at Pacific Diner, which located in front of the Cinema XXI. Well, yesterday, I finally went to Plaza Senayan again... and well, turned out that I've missed a lot of improvements that they've made :)

This mall was one of the first shopping destinations in Jakarta. Located in a very strategic area (connected with Ratu Plaza, behind Gelora Bung Karno), a bit to the South, yet close to the Central Business area (Sudirman); Plaza Senayan sure has become a high-end spot. But since a couple of years ago, this place has a strong head-to-head competitor, Senayan City, which built right in front of the area and targeted high-end market as well. I personally don't really like going to SC, maybe the reason is more because of geographical issue. See, either SC or PS is located near my office, yet quite far from my place. It's slightly easier to go to PS for me, because I can walk passing Ratu Plaza and quickly end up in Jl. Sudirman. During the first year of my stay in Jakarta, this mall used to be my favorite mall. Imagine, you can hop at any shopping place according budget. Most of all, I love SOGO :D Metro is not bad either, cuz it provides a lot of choices (but then again, you better have the member card if you want to get additional benefits). But, I dunno why, most of my friends prefer to go to SC nowadays... despite it's lackness of middle class shopping choices, SC does carry a refreshing "youthful" energy as a relatively new player in town :)

Yesterday was the first time after 6 months (or more) of avoiding going to PS... *lols*... I mean, hey, why should I go there if I could just roll in 10 minutes and reach Plaza Indonesia, or Grand Indonesia. Especially, now PI has expanded its area, becoming extension and.... adding another XXI! *happy dance* Hohoho, it was a joyful sound in my ear when I heard it. Mall competition could be tough, man, and we (read: the customers) are absorbing more benefits from that :p Anyways, back to story about PS... I got this ticket to see premiere of "The Proposal" (I just love Sandra Bullock!) and I had to go, right... *wink* so, I stepped into PS and noticed a difference on elevator. Since the XXI was re-opened, they have added extra elevator near the parking lot. Voila! It took me only about 5 minutes to get to Cinema XXI on 5th floor. After the show, the clock is showing 9.30 pm, and some restaurants were still serving. Me and my friends still had time to look around, checking on Marche restaurant. It's a must-visit place for a change. I surely will come back, and see what other changes that PS has to offer... (Like my boyfriend always says, changes are good).

Here are some of good offers from PS this month*:
Periplus- Save 20% off for all Paolo Coelho books, Save 15% off for all dictionaries and language learning-books.
Everbest- Save up to 50% for selected items.
Mango- Save up to 70% for selected items.
Zara- End of season sale. Discount up to 50% off.
Lacoste-
End of season sale. Discount up to 50% off.
Levi's- Save up to 40%, select items and get additional discount 10% off for HSBC card holders.

*as quoted from web.

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By coolz
On Wednesday, August 19, 2009
At 11:37 AM
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Personal Review: The Proposal (Touchstone Pictures 2009)

pic taken from http://mariannabelle.wordpress.com/2009/07/14/the-proposal-review/

Sandra Bullock is back! This is one of the movie that instantly captured my attention, even though knowing it's just another romantic comedy with predictable ending. Well, it doesn't really matter, because after you watch this movie, you'd realize that it cannot fall into "Chick Flicks" category. Not saying that this is the best movie that Ms. Bullock had ever played, but definitely my choice for the best romantic comedy of this year. Well, okay, maybe I could change my mind later on, cuz I haven't seen some promising movies that will be released soon, including "(500) Days of Summer", "The Ugly Truth" *must watch-must watch-must watch*, and "I Love You, Man". But so far, this movie is far better than "The Confession of A Shopaholic" *crap*, "Bride Wars" *double crap!*, or "He's Just Not Into You" (which became a huge hit mainly cuz of the A-List stars). "The Proposal" felt more genuine and effortlessly funny. I had the chance to watch the premiere at Plaza Senayan Cinema XXI along with the other Cosmopolitan readers. Surprisingly, the audiences were not only females, but even guys *not necessarily gay* and middle-aged couples took the time to watch it in pairs.

There's a saying (well, maybe only in my country), "don't hate someone too much; it might turn into love". Well, that's exactly what happened in the movie. Ryan Reynolds *superr hot bod*
played as Andrew Paxton, an Alaskan who is working in NYC as an assistant of this Canadian editor, Margareth Tate *somehow the name sounds familiar*, a.k.a the witch, the beyotch, etc... In order to stay in US and keep her job, Margareth asks Andrew to cooperate with her and get married. The Department of Immigration cannot believe this sudden announcement, and decides to run a test to prove how well both of them know each other. Apparently, that weekend, Andrew's grandma is celebrating her 90th birthday in his hometown (grandma played by Betty White, who definitely doesn't look that old). Although the movie wasn't shooted in Sitka, Alaska, the settings are nice.

Watching this movie, I think Sandra Bullock definitely had mastered some "romantic" genre rules. I can still remember one of her movie, "While you were sleeping" was played on TV over and over (but I'd also watched it all over again). Her natural acting, combined with Ryan's innocent quirkiness, had made some disturbing faults along the movie unnoticeable. This movie taught us not to judge people by its cover, and it's true... Someone who looks strong unbreakable, might had gone several rocks and obsticles, which finally shaped them into a tough individual.

Btw, I also luurve the cutey white dog... Hihi, he made me smiled the whole movie. Oh, thanks to this movie, a non-fan of Canadian actor, Ryan Reynolds (yes, in reality he is a Canadian), would reconsider to see his next role as Deadpool (one of the characters in X-Men).

By coolz
On Tuesday, August 18, 2009
At 11:45 PM
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Let's Watch Harry Potter & The Half-Blood Prince!

harry potter tix 2009

O yay!! I'm gonna watch "Harry Potter" premiere tomorrow. I ask my neighbor to accompany me.... hehehe (since I watch in in Metropole XXI which located just a few steps from my place). Hopefully I won't get sick tomorrow.

By coolz
On Wednesday, July 15, 2009
At 2:21 PM
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Friday

Choir practice as always. Kinda feel a bit "less dynamic" since one of our music team leader off for vacation. But she'll be back soon, so it's all good.

Saturday

Food marathon. The 2nd time going to Plaza Indonesia. The 3rd time going out with friends. Chelly came to pick me up at about 12, and we headed to PI together to meet two friends at Sushi Tei. Another weekend with sushi! *nyam* I just luuurve su-shi! Anyways, we were catching up, and spoke about many many things... Felt that we still like to talk, we moved to excelso for coffee... Talk some more... walk around... After Chelly wnet home, one friend wanted to try black forest pizza @ Pizza Boutique.. (It was not too good, IMHO). Then finally, the best part, we strolled to PI extension and hop in Pizza e Birra!! Well, ok, I was exageratting... but really, the ambiance, music, and drinks are cool! The flavoured beer is a must-try ;) I'd definitely go there next time. I got home at about midnite and felt so d*rn tired but happy. Felt obligated to wake up early for the 9 AM service.

Sunday

I managed to wake up on-time! Yayy! *happy dance* Everytime there is someone scheduled for the video can't make it, I feel a bit neccessary to replace the person... so... I guarded the video for 9 AM service and listened to Pt. PK talked about "threshing floor". I went home straight after the 11 AM worship session, cuz I wanna spend time at home and chat with my hunny. We chat a bit, and I was suddenly thinking of going to Bloom spa... At about 5.30 PM I went out on foot, and left everything but 75,000 cash money. I had dinner first at KFC, before decided to go home at about 8 PM and... found that there were lots of guys in army suits and lots of cars were parked on the street to the house where I rented a room. There was this long black funeral car, and I was like... oh no, what happened?!!...I walked into the house, still in my Planet Hollywood shirt & short, and got the news that the owner of the house had passed away because of his sickness. The only good thing is, that his family has gathered from across the world to meet him before his final day. May God give strength and comfort the family.

Btw, this is the 2nd funeral that I know happened this week. Also the 2nd loss that happened in the house where I lived in (is that creepy?). I remember my family... Huhuhu, can't imagine how it feels to loose your loved ones... May God bless my family and my loved ones. Amen.

How about your weekend, all? :)

By coolz
On Monday, July 13, 2009
At 4:00 PM
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Weekend Review: One Election, Two Funerals, and Three Hang-Outs

What-a-week! *pheww*

A lot of things had happened during last week, and I just have to write it down for my memory lane... How should I start ya? Hmm, okay, let's start from the first day then...

Monday

"A 'Creative Revolution' begins today," said the email. After receiving an SMS the night before, all of the creative team was wearing black top outfits. All of us got a red Revolutionary note, along with one black 'Guevara' hat. Not surprising to see that everybody suddenly posed for lots of pic taking. So, I have a new head now, and I still don't know what to do with which brands. But, like my hunny said, changes are good... We'll see about that.

Tuesday

It's karaoke day! I haven't met my LG friends for like three weeks, and the host was suggesting for us to gather in a karaoke session at T-Rex, Grand Indonesia. So, I met her for dinner first @ Y&Y, and we ended up talking about a lot of things... including her plan to move out of Jakarta soon. The sudden news kinda make me sad. I mean, we've been together as a sharing group for more than 2 years, and if we don't have that anymore means... I have to find another group. Another change, another adjustment. Oh well, c'est la vie... No matter what happen, we must go on. Anyways, the 3-hour-singing was nice (not too many people came as expected, though). T-Rex was quite sophisticated and up-to-date; each room has different layout and ambiance. You can find all the songs you wanna sing... from pop to gospel... pluss... mic standing, a mini drum, and disco ball. The odd thing about the place is only the scoring... Just don't be too proud if you reach 90, or discouraged if you only got 62 *lols*

When I got home at about 1 am, the funeral for MJ was being broadcast LIVE almost on all channels. I log on to Gtalk while watching, and able to chat with my hunny for a while... Soon after watching Stevie Wonder and Magic Johnson, I fell asleep :) Sorry, MJ, your voice was great, but your live is sensational. Millions viewers were crying to see your departure... and they should... they should... Auf Wiedersehen. :)


Wednesday

Indonesian election day. Off work. I didn't vote, though... so basically just spent the day chillin' at home and cooked. Watched "Evangelion 1.01" and "He's Just Not Into You" (starring Aniston, Affleck, Conelly, and Johansen). I imagine the malls must be crowded this day, cuz usually there'd be special appreciation giveaway/ discounts for voters.

Thursday

After one full day off the streets, office, and malls... I kinda feel like eating out and meeting friends. Since the work load is currently low, I managed myself to leave early and met my friend for dinner. She's working at fX, which is located across my office building... We met in busway stop and went to Plaza Indonesia. I had picked up my MNG grey trousers too (they always have overlength size). *happy happy*

...(to be continued)

 
 

News Flash: I Have to Go to Solo

As quoted from www.aqsaliving.com/news/aqsa-living-blog-competition-2009-winner-announcement.html (published on June 15, 2009)

The winners of AQSA Living Blog Competition 2009 are:
1. 1st winner: Muhammad Masrur Islami- http://muhamaze.wordpress.com/
2. 2nd winner: Feri Yunus Madao - http://tongkonanku.blogspot.com/
3. 3rd winner: Shirley Wibisono - http://www.shirleydaily.com/

The winner prizes will be awarded on Awarding Night of AQSA LIVING Design Furniture Competition that will be held on 25 July 2009 at Balaikota Surakarta. As a note, winner’s accommodation will be AQSA Living responsibility.

Congratulation to all the winners and thank you to the participants of AQSA Living Blog Competition 2009. We truly hope that ideas, thoughts and advices about Indonesian Export from all the participants create motivation and inspiration to the element of Indonesia for Indonesian Export progress.

PT. AQSA International


Published on June 23, 2009

The ten nominees in alphabetical order of AQSA Living Furniture Design Contest are :

  1. Adi Muchdillah (Yogyakarta - Indonesia)
  2. Ardhi Febriyantoro (Semarang - Indonesia)
  3. Ari Arsono Boedisantoso (Tangerang - Indonesia)
  4. Enriko Maradona Thamrin (Sukabumi - Indonesia)
  5. Nguyen Thanh Nam (Ha Noi city - Viet Nam )
  6. Sashia Rosari (Jakarta - Indonesia)
  7. Sukmadi Rafiuddin (Bandung - Indonesia)
  8. Theophilus Wijaya Suryanto & William Tjhi (Semarang-Indonesia)
  9. Topo Handoko (Yogyakarta - Indonesia)
  10. Winta Sekundatia Adhimena (Yogyakarta-Indonesia)

The next stage of judging will be held on 24 July 2009. And finally, the winners will be announced on 25 July 2009. May the best design win! (...and that's why I have to wait 'till 25th of July to pick up my nu laptop).

By coolz
On Wednesday, June 24, 2009
At 7:43 PM
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